Showing posts with label Motivational. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Motivational. Show all posts

Wednesday, February 27, 2013

Success in Two Words


Success in two Words 
If this is your first time with me you can check out my intro Blog, so you can see what Tomorrow Won’t Suck is all about.


Today I want to talk about two things that lead to a successful career. They are going to seem obvious once they are said, but hopefully I can give you a different perspective (especially in regards to one of them). The two things, words in this case, are motivation and passion. Motivation I feel is a bit easier to understand, but passion seems to get escape some people.

Passion is the term that I feel gets a bit lost in translation for people. First lets go back to high school for a second, and plug the definition in here. Passion is “a strong liking or desire for or devotion to some activity, object, or concept,” (Merriam-Webster). What I feel happens to many of us, is we all like so many things, that it is hard to pin something down that brings us the most joy. Then you add in our indecisive natures and the wonderful ability that our brain has of not thinking linearly. You have this wonderful concoction called Chaos, which makes it hard to really figure out what is best for us. I personally feel, that as long as you truly enjoy something you can be happy doing it. It doesn’t have to be you most enjoyed, but if it is still a passion you will be perfectly fine.

We live in an age where if someone doesn’t understand something, they are not always the most understanding of the concept. So everyone has their own predetermined path of success, which most parents also have ideas for their children that are passed down. What I feel happens is that we are molded into thinking and accepting someone else’s path of success. For example, you may love to cook, but your family is composed of professors, lawyers, and bankers. They don’t think of that as a truly great career, and it starts to change your own path of success.

Now because of fear, you have lost your path and your true passions. You see yourself doing something because of different reasons, which were not originally important to you. If you want to blog for a living, cook, start a charitable cause, or anything just go out and do it. We only have one life to live, and we should not be out there making someone else’s dream come true. You should be doing what you love, and to make it profitable and successful it takes a LOT of hard work and a lot of the second word/concept I want to talk about.

Motivation, this is the driving force in your life. A lot of people either lose this or just don’t know what to be motivated about. Something I have always found cool where personality tests. People place different amounts of merit on these things, but I have always found them very cool and interesting (you can go here for a very good personality test). This can better help you to understand yourself, at least, which is always nice. Doing things that are out of the norm truly take a lot of hard work. Just starting this endeavor now has been more work than I initially thought. Coming up with things to talk about all the time and making the videos for my YouTube channel. Add this with the fear of the unknown, and it truly leaves people in a state of panic to truly pursue things they would love to do.

No matter what you want to do, you just need to take the first scary step. You will get lots of funny looks when you tell people, for example with me that I am just writing a blog and trying to start a motivational cause. I get it all the time, but we live in 2013, we have tons of things that we can use to make a living from anywhere on any schedule. I don’t need a boss, besides the wife, telling me what to do in order to feel like I am being successful. Just keep at it, things take time and the usually don’t happen over night. Lets have a better tomorrow guys, if you need anything message me.

Thursday, February 14, 2013

Tomorrow Won't Suck

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Tomorrow Won’t Suck

What is it? Tomorrow Won’t Suck is my motivational revolution. I want to reach out and help people get out of their dark sad places. <Insert Tag Line>”I want you to take back your tomorrow, today!”</Insert Tag Line> There are too many people out their suffering in sadness or a funk, all alone. With all the resources we have, all the technology that can bridge so many gaps, this should not be the case. I want to us to stop all of that today! I want to hear from anyone, whatever the problem: bullying, relationship, job, or life in general.

What made me want to do this? I had a rough ending to 2012. My wife and I fell apart and I am currently out of work. Bad thing about all of this is the fact that I kept it all inside, and it started to hurt. Anyone who knows me can vouch that I am a really happy and up beat person, through almost any situation. That was leaving me though, and in its place was this dark poison. A poison that started in my heart and eventually worked its way to my brain. I began to feel like I had nothing to look forward to, like I couldn’t fix anything going on in my life, and it was hopeless (This get happier, very soon. I promise).

I no longer felt like the man/father that I was. Nothing made sense, school and life seemed so very unimportant. Then, after some time went on, my son’s smiling face pierced through some of the veil. I realized, for him as much as myself, I couldn’t keep going like this. So I set myself on a path to fixing that. I read some relationship books, finance material, and began watching and read tons of motivational material, like TED (Technology, Entertainment and Design) speeches. Which, I highly recommend anyone to do if they have some time.

I began to feel some hope and happiness, with the information I was finding. The poison began to breakdown and I had a clear goal of what I wanted to do. I realized through all of this, that there is one thing that I really love to do and that is talking to people. I am a pretty shy person, but I love to just have conversations with people and talking about life and what is going on with them, because everyone has such a unique way of living, that is always different from the person you talk to before. So my goal is to use this platform to get out there and communicate with as many of you possible. I want us to reach out and help all the people who feel lost and alone, because they are not. I want to build a community of peers who would like to help me accomplish these same goals. Helping anyone regardless of age, ethnicity, sex, and social background, because anyone can be feeling lost out there and I want to be there for them, nobody should feel like that anymore.

So in a nutshell, Tomorrow Won’t Suck is here to do a couple of things:
First help the downtrodden, pull them from their darkness.
Second, build a community of helpful people.
Finally just bring some happiness when possible.

I have a lot of things I want to get rolling, and I am going to succeed in this mission, because I really care about people and what is happening to them. I truly want to help and so I will succeed for all the people out there who I am trying to reach, and so my son can see that he has a father who is truly trying to do something right in the world. Like the many super heroes he reads about in comics every night, and I can hear him use those words for me, ”Daddy, you are a hero.”

So stick around and check in, in the mean time if you have something you need to talk about. Feel free to email me at: tomorrowwontsuck@gmail.com


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