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Wednesday, February 27, 2013

Success in Two Words


Success in two Words 
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Today I want to talk about two things that lead to a successful career. They are going to seem obvious once they are said, but hopefully I can give you a different perspective (especially in regards to one of them). The two things, words in this case, are motivation and passion. Motivation I feel is a bit easier to understand, but passion seems to get escape some people.

Passion is the term that I feel gets a bit lost in translation for people. First lets go back to high school for a second, and plug the definition in here. Passion is “a strong liking or desire for or devotion to some activity, object, or concept,” (Merriam-Webster). What I feel happens to many of us, is we all like so many things, that it is hard to pin something down that brings us the most joy. Then you add in our indecisive natures and the wonderful ability that our brain has of not thinking linearly. You have this wonderful concoction called Chaos, which makes it hard to really figure out what is best for us. I personally feel, that as long as you truly enjoy something you can be happy doing it. It doesn’t have to be you most enjoyed, but if it is still a passion you will be perfectly fine.

We live in an age where if someone doesn’t understand something, they are not always the most understanding of the concept. So everyone has their own predetermined path of success, which most parents also have ideas for their children that are passed down. What I feel happens is that we are molded into thinking and accepting someone else’s path of success. For example, you may love to cook, but your family is composed of professors, lawyers, and bankers. They don’t think of that as a truly great career, and it starts to change your own path of success.

Now because of fear, you have lost your path and your true passions. You see yourself doing something because of different reasons, which were not originally important to you. If you want to blog for a living, cook, start a charitable cause, or anything just go out and do it. We only have one life to live, and we should not be out there making someone else’s dream come true. You should be doing what you love, and to make it profitable and successful it takes a LOT of hard work and a lot of the second word/concept I want to talk about.

Motivation, this is the driving force in your life. A lot of people either lose this or just don’t know what to be motivated about. Something I have always found cool where personality tests. People place different amounts of merit on these things, but I have always found them very cool and interesting (you can go here for a very good personality test). This can better help you to understand yourself, at least, which is always nice. Doing things that are out of the norm truly take a lot of hard work. Just starting this endeavor now has been more work than I initially thought. Coming up with things to talk about all the time and making the videos for my YouTube channel. Add this with the fear of the unknown, and it truly leaves people in a state of panic to truly pursue things they would love to do.

No matter what you want to do, you just need to take the first scary step. You will get lots of funny looks when you tell people, for example with me that I am just writing a blog and trying to start a motivational cause. I get it all the time, but we live in 2013, we have tons of things that we can use to make a living from anywhere on any schedule. I don’t need a boss, besides the wife, telling me what to do in order to feel like I am being successful. Just keep at it, things take time and the usually don’t happen over night. Lets have a better tomorrow guys, if you need anything message me.

Friday, February 15, 2013

The Survivor Effect


The Survivor Effect

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I have two favorite reality shows, and I get deeply into to them. One more so than the other, but still its pretty intense. Those two shows are Survivor and Big Brother. Big Brother I would love to be on, and Survivor scares me, so that probably means I should try it to help work through some fears… Anyways getting off track.

On Survivor, they have a group of four who are the self-appointed cool kids AND the self-appointed prettiest people of the island. Here at Tomorrow Won’t Suck, and I going to do my best to leave out any negative language to anyone, even if I feel they deserve it, since that goes against what I want for this Revolution. However, it’s a shame to see that these people have “grown up”, are well past the high school years and are still making comments of how they will not let anyone join their cool kid table.

One of these four people are so pretentious, more so than I have seen on a reality show anywhere. I am not listing any names, because you can go watch the show, at CBS and you will be able to tell. I really do not have to embellish to paint the picture I am trying to paint.

What I am getting at with this article, is that when you are at school, ”cool kids” make life sooooo much more difficult for others. I had more bad times in high school than good. It was kind of an oppressive place for me. Getting out of high school and into college was one of the best moments, because everyone was much more open and understanding. People in high school really want to be cool and fit in, and the “cool kids” are some of the worst. They want to do whatever it takes to fit in… including picking on other people for a laugh or shunning someone because they are different than what they are.

The people who are going to be so vocal about not liking who you are DO NOT matter, in the slightest. You should not let it bother you at all, I wish I could go back and tell myself, it doesn’t matter at all what they think, and I should know I am a good person. Since the people who really spent the time to get to know me, enjoyed having me around, talking to me, and caring about what goes on in your life. Not immature people, who are so concerned with how they are viewed by their “friends” that they have to call you out because of your skin color, sexuality, hairstyle, or clothing.

To be fair, the uncool people out number the cool people. It is something I think the “cool kids” are pretty aware of and they do what they can to make sure they stay where they are on the social ladder. Which is what I love about social experiment shows like Survivor and Big Brother, the mean and cruel never when because of what they have done. The other members of the tribe realized that and they came together to not be pushed around by them. So if you find yourself in a situation where you are being bullied, leave the situation. I wish I had left all the situations I was involved in like that, and just left. Why did I feel like I had to sit there and listen to all the mean things they had to say? It doesn’t make sense but I did. So leave to situation, and if this is at school, let a teacher know, and then go to your friends. You are there to learn and have fun and nobody should take that away from you. So ignore the people who don’t care about you, and listen to the ones who do.

/End rant


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